Baby Welcoming
Jewish Naming Ceremony Bay Area
“The most important thing about your baby welcoming ceremony is your values. My highest priority is to make our Jewish tradition accessible and relevant to you.”
Welcoming a new baby into the world is a joyous occasion.
There are several ways that Judaism traditionally supports the occasion.
It can also be a time of questioning between generations or if there is more than one religion/ethnicity in the family. The last thing you need with a new baby in the house is to sort out the sticky issues.
I can help you figure out what is important to you, and show how the Jewish tradition supports your values.
What is a Jewish baby welcoming ceremony?
Traditionally, the Jewish baby welcoming is celebrated in the community. Whatever the gender of your child, or if you choose not to assign a gender, the Jewish tradition can help you make the occasion special.
The most inclusive and common ceremony for a baby welcoming is a Jewish baby naming. In the baby naming ceremony the Hebrew name of the baby is shared, the parents speak about why the name was chosen, and there are blessings.
The Brit Milah (covenant of circumcision) is the traditional circumcision ceremony for male babies and takes place on the 8th day of life. A Brit Bat (covenant of the daughter) is a more recent ritual for girl babies.
What is most important is to welcome your child to the Jewish people, and celebrate the formation of this new version of your family.
Do you want more than a Jewish naming ceremony?
Baby naming is a great option for babies circumcised in the hospital or babies with a different gender or no gender.
The full Brit Milah ritual has a lot of meaningful elements (like a big party!) that can be recreated without the circumcision. Together we’ll find the right option for your family.
What is a Brit Am?
Brit Am means covenant of the people and is a ritual I co-created for a baby of any gender that welcomes the baby, parent(s), and the new family unit into a life of doing acts of Chesed (Kindness/compassion) in the Jewish people.
Brit Am includes standing under a canopy held up by friends and foot washing. If you are interested, we can discuss and customize it to fit your needs.
How do I officiate a Jewish naming ceremony?
We’ll work together to design a Jewish naming ceremony that fits your family.
You can have readings and poetry.
I’ll say a few blessings and prayers, and you’ll have a chance to share why you picked the Hebrew and English names for your child.
What is the story with Jewish circumcision?
Circumcision is a Jewish custom that goes back over two thousand years. Today it is most commonly done in the hospital a few days after birth, although some still elect to have a Brit Milah on the 8th day of life.
There is anecdotal evidence that more Jewish families are electing not to circumcise their kids. I am not going to take a position on whether you should circumcise your child or not. Either way, my job is to welcome your new child and new family unit into the Jewish community.
Let's take the first step!
Let’s see if we are a good fit for your Jewish naming ceremony!
Book a 30-minute call and we can get to know each other. I can learn what is important to you and share my approach to how to prepare for the baby's welcoming.
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